SUNY Oswego offers LGBTQ+ students a dedicated living and learning community designed to foster inclusivity, support and a sense of belonging on campus.

All In, a Living Learning Community (LLC) at SUNY Oswego, spans two floors in Waterbury Hall where LGBTQ+ students and allies can live. The second floor is designated for first-year students only, while the third floor is for returning students. 

“I’ve heard from students that this is really the first time they have felt safe and surrounded by people who are positive,” said Ellen Gooch, faculty mentor of All In, and licensed clinical social worker. Gooch hosts office hours at the LLC at least one hour a week. 

"I want to continue being in a community that fosters and protects those who are in the LGBTQ community, a safe place for me and my friends, especially when we are in such uncertain times,” said Mercedes Relyea, a current resident of All In.

“This is the time they can use the name they want to use, dress how they want to and not have to put on a mask they may have had up until they came to school,” Gooch said. 

Living in All In means being part of a community based on mutual respect, understanding and affirmation. It is a place where all identities are celebrated. Students also have the opportunity to move in one to two days early and begin making connections. The resident assistants (RAs) add to the supporting atmosphere.

"As someone who is not only queer but transgender, my experience in living in this community was the best thing I could've asked for,” said Dayanara Alequin, a current resident of All In. “The staff, RAs and friends I've made here are all so welcoming and accepting.”

All In was created after SUNY Oswego conducted listening sessions and discussion groups with students on campus about their needs and wants. 

“We’ve renovated our bathrooms for students to feel more comfortable with private bathrooms,” said Leigh Viscomi, senior associate director for residential experience. 

Students also could take advantage of the nearby Dr. Mary Walker Health Center if they want to look into transitioning, Viscomi added. 

Allies are an important group of people for the LGBTQ+ community, especially on campus. As an ally, it is important to support the community. “Your voice might be heard over someone who is marginalized,” Gooch said. 

Gooch also runs a transgender support group on campus Fridays from 2:30 to 3:30 p.m. at the Counseling Services Center in the health center. Additionally, she serves as a faculty advisor for the SUNY Oswego Pride Alliance. The university also offers a Disability Pride group that meets Tuesdays 2 to 3:30 p.m. at Counseling Services.

“I think it’s important for LGBTQ young adults to see mentors and older people,” Gooch said. “I’m married, so sometimes I bring my wife to events.”

Students in All In can opt in to take GST 102, “Contemporary Social Issues.”

All In is one of three LLCs that seek to provide opportunities to connect, grow and thrive –- also including Be First, supporting first-generation students, and Live Well, dedicated to providing an atmosphere supporting holistic wellness. Watch Oswego Today for future stories on these communities. 

–- Written by Gianna Cowell of the Class of 2026